Finding balance between work and family has been one of the biggest challenges- and greatest lessons- of my life. For a long time, I thought I could achieve some magical state where everything stayed perfectly organized and everyone’s needs were met without any hiccups. I quickly learned that life doesn’t work that way. What I’ve discovered instead is that balance is a daily choice, a constant practice, and a mindset that helps me stay grounded when life gets messy.

It starts with being honest about my priorities. I know there will always be more emails to answer, calls to return, and projects to complete. But my family only gets one version of me-and I want that version to be fully present. That’s why I carve out dedicated time on my calendar for family dinners, school events, and quiet evenings at home. I block those moments off the same way I would for an important meeting with a client because, to me, they’re just as important.

Another thing that helps is clear and open communication. I talk to my family about my work schedule, and I keep my team at work updated on my family commitments. When everyone’s on the same page, it’s easier to manage expectations and avoid unnecessary stress. I’ve learned that it’s okay to ask for help or to say “no” when my plate is too full. It doesn’t make me any less dedicated-it just makes me human.

I also try to protect small moments for myself. These pockets of time-like enjoying my morning coffee before anyone else is awake, squeezing in a quick workout, or reading a few pages of a book before bed-give me the energy to show up for both work and family. I’ve found that when I neglect my own needs, it catches up with me fast. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential.

Flexibility is another big piece of the puzzle. Some days, work will demand more of my time. Other days, family emergencies or milestones take priority. Instead of getting frustrated when plans change, I remind myself that balance isn’t about splitting my time evenly every day-it’s about adjusting as life unfolds. I try to be kind to myself when things don’t go perfectly.

Finding balance will always be a moving target for me, but over time, I’ve gotten better at recognizing what works and what doesn’t. I’ve stopped trying to do it all at once. Instead, I focus on being fully present wherever I am-whether I’m leading a meeting, helping with homework, or just laughing around the dinner table.

In the end, my biggest takeaway is that balance doesn’t come from rigid rules-it comes from giving myself grace, staying flexible, and remembering what matters most. And as long as I keep showing up for both my work and my family with intention and love, I know I’m doing something right.